Having a Baby as a Child | Ekane Colorism Live | Cody Ford and Tianna Break Up

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024

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  • @bw1615
    @bw1615 2 месяца назад +24

    I'm 26 and the thought of having a child now is terrifying and I could afford a family!!!! I hope the little girl understands what she's saying soon.

    • @NaomyP
      @NaomyP 2 месяца назад +6

      I'm 27, turning 28 at the end of the year and the idea of having a kid now is terrifying and affording it in this economy? oh no

    • @elsiem7295
      @elsiem7295 2 месяца назад +4

      Literally I’m 25 about to be 26 and I cannot even imagine having 3 children by 23. I would’ve self destructed but to have a child while relying on someone else? Thats something I really cannot even begin to imagine

    • @california_rebel
      @california_rebel 2 месяца назад +2

      Very smart lil sis. It’s selfish and irresponsible to bring a child into the world with no plan and not established.

  • @lifeofashemechelle
    @lifeofashemechelle 2 месяца назад +5

    Her tune gonna change when the rent, child care and car note all come due by the first week of the month

  • @mariahjonesbest239
    @mariahjonesbest239 2 месяца назад +13

    The last girl is truly hilarious 😂😂 The naivety of youth is so amusing, and a little grating. Barely pubescent pregnancies are just as dangerous as geriatric pregnancies. There’s a reason she and other young moms get c sections and it’s usually not by choice. C sections are scheduled to reduce chances of a pre rupture or preeclampsia, as well as avoiding permanent damage to the vaginal canal/rectum.
    She’s not understanding the gravity of having children because the weight isn’t fully on her. She wants more kids by 23, but hasn’t said a thing about continuing school, learning a trade, getting a job, etc. I hope she’s family planning with the family because she hasn’t really learned anything from this. Right now she’s a teen with one baby, that is not the same thing as being 20something with a kid, a toddler and an infant. More kids means having to coordinate the needs of more people who rely on you while working and keeping house; then the support system isn’t as amenable to helping as they get older, baby daddies start baby daddying..and God forbid something were to happen to her parents.
    The reality is she is privileged to have a support system. Her mother was a teen mother, she became a preteen mom and with this attitude of hers I don’t see the cycle changing for her daughter. I don’t know if she has a job or if she’s making money from TikTok, but she’s got too much free time if you ask me lol What she say? She’s not going to be 30 changing diapers after bringing home a grandchild to her 27 year old mother 😂

  • @keemykay2090
    @keemykay2090 2 месяца назад +7

    The fact that the 15 year old said she be “outside” like girl where are you outside at? The playground.. the bus stop😂😂😂 she thinks she has it all together a GED only gone get you employed at McDonalds. I’m 25 soon to be 26 and I’m a single mother and struggling!! I got pregnant at 22 had my baby at 23. I done went through college doing medical assisting and Limited scope radiology finished and graduated with a 3.9 GPA I have my own car it took me 7 years to get just working on getting a place. Her 15 year old brain go realize it’s not easy out here! Support system or not

  • @Reallythere54321
    @Reallythere54321 2 месяца назад +10

    If she was molsted that it very sad and makes a lot of sense it’s really not her fault at 11. Brain isn’t fully formed to process that type of trauma.

    • @naturallytajy973
      @naturallytajy973 2 месяца назад +4

      Still is though and that lil boys fault. I understand molestation can make someone hypersexual, but the way she talking is like she knew what she was doing.

    • @SweetPhantom
      @SweetPhantom 2 месяца назад

      @@naturallytajy973 Yes! Her actions show that she just didn’t have guidance and was unsupervised. She knew what she was doing.

  • @Natty_red
    @Natty_red 2 месяца назад +7

    I’m so petty, I went to her tiktok page just to tell her that they make a piece that goes on the back of her glasses to tighten them since she done pushed them up about 5011 times. Since I’m 42 and I’m old apparently. Lol 😂

  • @Reallythere54321
    @Reallythere54321 2 месяца назад +8

    Jess your commentary is too much 😂” she thinks this cute” 😂😂😂 lmao

  • @jessicamonroe2921
    @jessicamonroe2921 2 месяца назад +9

    This is the first time I disagree with u on a topic, a 12yo getting pregnant by a 15yo, is crazy but she said she was raised by her grandparents obviously a lot of ppl failed her as a child.

  • @Reallythere54321
    @Reallythere54321 2 месяца назад +9

    You said he’s ugly and he’s beating me lol😂

  • @Wealth.is.health3797
    @Wealth.is.health3797 2 месяца назад +7

    I had my first child at 20 my grandfather told me and my mom
    I should’ve had my child earlier like 14-16 I never looked at my grandfather the same after that because I thought 20 was still too young for me to have a baby he’s weird.

  • @SweetPhantom
    @SweetPhantom 2 месяца назад +3

    I had a baby at 24. I was living on my own, owned my car, paying for myself to go to school. Literal grown ass woman lol. And STILL broke down in tears crying my eyes out! I could not imagine having a baby at 11/12!
    Now here I am 32 and still afraid to get pregnant lol. One and done and celibate because I’m too scared lol

    • @theressak
      @theressak 21 день назад

      Giiirl tell me about it!!! One and done. Had my son at 20, 16 years ago.

  • @astroHOBBES
    @astroHOBBES 2 месяца назад +11

    Yoooo what is going on???? Who got this 11year old pregnant???? That’s not ok!!!!!

    • @nitak3028
      @nitak3028 2 месяца назад

      A grown ass man

  • @kaykay1551
    @kaykay1551 2 месяца назад +9

    Ekane brought that up for no reason like what does that have to do with you being abused…

    • @california_rebel
      @california_rebel 2 месяца назад

      she made that DV in the comments up. The “dark skin girl” had suggested she go offline for a while because she seems unstable and THAT was ekanes reply to what the “dark skin girl” suggested. She clearly manipulated and lied to her viewers. The comments can’t be found in the playback.

  • @dr.johnson007
    @dr.johnson007 2 месяца назад +3

    It’s not the 11 year olds fault. Nobody raised her. Mom is absent, Dad doesn’t deal with her and has a wife and girlfriend (she corrected herself to differentiate in the video). What a shame. She was apparently fast but nevertheless she was a child that could not consent and was sexually assaulted. So unfortunate! 😢

  • @lifeofashemechelle
    @lifeofashemechelle 2 месяца назад +2

    "You're the most fertile in your teens" is CRAZY to say

    • @TheJessCasonBrand
      @TheJessCasonBrand  2 месяца назад +2

      I’m like dang, I was the most scared to have sex as a teen.

  • @SLBplays
    @SLBplays 2 месяца назад +7

    57:13 ewww 😂 the way she acts I know she looks up to EKane 😂😂 this generation is literally doomed, and my fear is the children that they raise because they’re going to grow up with my kid. Which is why I teach her self-confidence common sense, and how to fight just in case.

  • @Natty_red
    @Natty_red 2 месяца назад +5

    Pregnant at 11? This isn’t cute what so ever. These little girls are too grown. Even in this video she doesn’t look like a 15 year old. What’s the rush to being grown? Working and paying bills? As soon as she’s of age to work she needs to. This isn’t a flex.

  • @zynedibee
    @zynedibee 2 месяца назад +2

    I couldn’t imagine getting pregnant at 11! I was pregnant at 16 and my mom tried to beat my daughter out of me.. I could only imagine doing that at 11…

  • @Cityboyrail
    @Cityboyrail 2 месяца назад +2

    The fact my first born would’ve been 16 years old got me 38 😭😩🙈

  • @LiaTheLight
    @LiaTheLight 2 месяца назад +2

    I see how she got pregnant.. drinking and smoking shouldn’t be on your mind as a 15 year old..

  • @jamiredavis3747
    @jamiredavis3747 2 месяца назад +1

    My mom had me in braids when I was in high school I was so mad!!😂😂😂

  • @tennielledorsey4040
    @tennielledorsey4040 3 дня назад

    I can’t with this little girl!
    First of all I want to see what she’s like in 20 years.
    A girl can technically get pregnant as soon as her first cycle, which is usually between the ages of 8-12, just because her body is ready doesn’t mean her mind is ready. And her mind is definitely not ready.
    Also, she keeps making a point of having a high risk pregnancy at 30, if google is right so is pregnancy at the ages of 10-14.
    This girl is going to be ran through and broken by the time she’s 30.
    So sad.

  • @JenelAmelliee
    @JenelAmelliee Месяц назад +1

    Sex is not worth the hype when you’re a kid. A sex life ruins your mental health. These kids don’t know nothing about soul ties and the chaos that thing will open up smh I pray she finds God.

  • @ebonimynd4133
    @ebonimynd4133 2 месяца назад

    This little girl’s priorities are not straight. A lot of the nonsense she is spewing really is about her rationalizing her life decisions. It’s evident that she lacks proper guidance since she wants to be “outside” while having a baby at 11, attend college parties, but not thinking of obtaining an education. She also wants to have more kids by 22, when she is not even ready for the child that she does have and does not have a legitimate plan that would provide for a stable environment for more children…

  • @lifeofashemechelle
    @lifeofashemechelle 2 месяца назад

    I just dont like how shes going back and forth saying "oh im not encouraging you to have kids young" and then double back and aay "oh yall women over 30 with your kfc biscuit eggs better hurry up!" Like sis 🙄

  • @LiaTheLight
    @LiaTheLight 2 месяца назад

    I hope young girls are not looking at this in a glorifying way.. we (indigenous black Americans) literally just put a halt to early pregnancies and now here she go… people had children at a young age back in the day because it was normal, a bit more accepted… Today, this shxt is NOT NORMAL, especially with all the information and resources… She gotta stop lying on her aunt lol, if I was her aunt I would come out and shut it all down.

    • @TheJessCasonBrand
      @TheJessCasonBrand  2 месяца назад

      I completely agree! And I think because girls are on TikTok, storytelling it in one way, and not telling the complete truth about how hard it is to be a parent overall, it’s making girls think that they can do it too. I always say, since I have a platform, I’m going to try and help any young girls who are listening to us.

  • @Pheonix3450
    @Pheonix3450 2 месяца назад +2

    What happened to Ekane's hair???

  • @rahmecarodriguez7205
    @rahmecarodriguez7205 2 месяца назад +1

    39:12 she’s gonna be so embarrassed about this video when she’s older. Hopefully!

    • @TheJessCasonBrand
      @TheJessCasonBrand  2 месяца назад

      I think it will! Once she sees how hard life really is without the support of her family like that

  • @california_rebel
    @california_rebel 2 месяца назад

    You are beautiful and hilarious.
    That football man cheated on her…
    *Her
    “I just … want him to be okay”
    Bish whet?.…she was trying too hard to be what she thought he liked.
    The blaccent , doin too much at the games. She doesn’t know how to read the room.

  • @Morenita892
    @Morenita892 20 дней назад

    Did Ekane mans snatch her hair follicles out or what?. I would never go on cam like that if my hair looked like that.

  • @dr.johnson007
    @dr.johnson007 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s not the 11 year olds fault. Nobody raised her. Mom is absent, Dad doesn’t deal with her and has a wife and girlfriend (she corrected herself to differentiate in the video). What a shame. She was apparently fast but nevertheless she was a child that could not consent and was sexually assaulted. So unfortunate! 😢